The Family. It has to be more than
just Mark and me, so let me introduce you to the rest of the members of
the monkey show.
In age order: Nathaniel, Ian, Jason, Jacob,
Zachary, Aaron.
Nathaniel just turned 29. He is my son, the
oldest of my five. He has had an interesting life so far, and maybe he'll blog
it someday himself. He was married young, and has two beautiful, smart, funny,
talented children. Cameron is 8 and Rebecca, who I call Reba, is 6. They live
full-time with their mother and blended family, and stay with us alternate
weekends, and for weeks during the summer. Nathaniel moved home in March
of last year, and he has integrated well back into the family.
Ian is my stepson and he is 26. He is a great kid, very personable, and has a
great future ahead of him. Ian has lived with us during the last three
winters. This spring begins his fourth summer season tending bar up on Mackinac
Island, and he has met some really interesting characters. But his real passion
is the screen. He spent two years out in southern California, and has worked on
the set of a nationally syndicated TV show. This summer he will be directing a
movie in northern Michigan, which will hopefully lead to more cinematographic
work in the future.
Jason is my second son. He is almost 21 and
working to save money for college. He is a prolific writer in his own right,
and you should look for blogs from him as soon as I put the idea into his head.
He loves anime, plays Magic and YuGiOh with friends, and aspires to be a master
swordsman. He hates his shop job, which I totally understand, but it gives him
a reason to save and get out of there. He is funny and talented, and doesn't
know his own value yet.
Jacob, my third, is 19. He will finish
high school in 8 days, and has aspirations to produce indie movies someday. He
draws beautiful black and white original artwork. His immediate future is up in
the air and will be interesting to explore.
Zachary is 17. He is
brilliant when it comes to math, smart when it comes to science, hopeless when
it comes to writing, and altogether entertaining. Zachary is (very) high
functioning ASD, and he is sometimes aware of how the condition affects him, and
sometimes not. His story would be interesting to hear from his perspective. He
is a high school junior.
Aaron is 15 and a high school sophomore.
He cannot wait to drive, graduate, get a job, move out, become a professional
athelete, grow up. He has had a girlfriend, lost in love, found love, tossed
love aside, and believes himself to be independent of all that. Aaron is a
typical teenager, at once my child and an exasperating adult wanna-be. He is
the youngest of the bunch, and always feels he has to fight for his place. That
may have been true when he was little, but he has come into his own, and has the
potential to be truly empathetic and superior, if he can be humble long enough.
Buddy is a ten year old labrador mix. He was rescued seven years
ago when we adopted him. He has run away, been found, been hit by a car
(twice), recovered, gotten incredibly overweight, suffered a stroke, recovered.
Through it all he is a sweet, loving pup. He is deaf now, and wanders the farm
aimlessly, content. He still tries to jump for his food, which is amusing
beyond belief. He still thinks he is a puppy. He will sleep on the couch
only if he thinks no one is looking, even though no one yells at him for getting
on the furniture.
This is the cast of characters. My personal
children still have not forgiven me for moving them out of the family home
during the divorce, and the move out to the country adds insult to injury. No
one is very excited about farming, even going so far as to tell me they're not "
working on my stupid farm". We shall see.